Esther Perel《Where Should We Begin?》：她毫无边界，他筑起高墙

I Don't Mean to Be Mean, But...

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Esther Perel 在播客《Where Should We Begin?》的一期节目中，面对一对沟通风格对立的伴侣：她毫无边界，他则把自己封闭起来，两人风格冲突让对话一开始就充满张力，Esther 甚至加入了愤怒声音的合唱。她意识到，这场只有三人的会谈还需要至少三把椅子，留给始终在婚姻背景中发声的姻亲。

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This is a classic session of Where Should We Begin? She has no boundaries, he’s walled off. And their opposing communication styles cause immediate tension in this explosive session. So much so, that Esther finds herself adding to the chorus of angry voices. There might only be three people in this session, but Esther realizes she needs at least three more chairs for the in-laws whose voices and opinions are always playing in the background of this marriage.

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