Esther Perel 探讨：背叛可以发生多少次？
How Many Times Can You Betray Me?
据公开节目介绍，一对夫妻在孩子出生后与丈夫的母亲决裂，并向 Esther Perel 寻求关系修复。介绍称，这次谈话涉及伴侣关系与原生家庭中的背叛经历、羞耻与责任，以及造成伤害后的修复。这是匿名个案的节目介绍，本站未收听音频，不能据此推断普遍关系规律或干预效果。
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A married couple arrives at Esther’s office hoping to recover from a devastating rupture with his mother after the birth of their first child. But immediately their session reveals a longer, more complex history of betrayal within their relationship and within his larger family system. Having a child, and experiencing an absolute break from his abusive mother, finally disrupted the toxic dynamics between the couple. Now, as they revisit the moments when she felt most abandoned by him, Esther helps them explore the differences between shame and accountability, the legacy of childhood family systems, and what it takes to truly repair the pain you’ve caused someone you love.
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