Esther Perel 谈无性恋伴侣的性与亲密困境
I Want You To Want Me
Esther Perel 在播客中接待一对已婚伴侣：一方最近发现自己是无性恋，另一方则把性视为主要的连接方式。她质疑两人对性的既有假设，并提出第三条路，而非认定离婚是唯一选项。节目为匿名真实个案，非实验结论。
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Couples often struggle with gaps in their sex drives, but what does a couple do when one person has no desire for sex whatsoever? A married couple comes to Esther with this question: one of them has recently discovered that she’s asexual, while the other craves sex as a primary form of connection. Is theirs an irreconcilable difference? Is there hope for their future, or should they accept that divorce is the only option before them? Esther challenges their long-held assumptions about sexuality, and offers a third path forward.
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